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1. While it is customary for the keyholder/Mistress/Master to keep the keys on them at all times and impractical to leave them behind, an emergency key is very important.
Place one of the keys on a piece of paper, fold it, staple or glue the paper shut (we used super glue), have the KH/Mistress/Master put their signature on the paper and tell the Sub where it is. If the Sub ever needs the key for an emergency they always have access, but if they use it just for fun the KH will know because the paper is either destroyed or their signature missing.
2. For cages such as The Curve or CB6000 or 6000s (any in that line I believe) the ring is VERY uncomfortable and digs into the scrotum, especially after a long night sleeping with it not being moved at all. The first and only thing so far I tried was a shrink wrap tubing. It isn’t extremely comfortable but its a lot more comfortable than the ring alone and almost zero pain.
I have also seen a lot of people use a flexible tube, we tried that but couldn’t find one large enough. Go to any hardware or auto parts store for the shrink wrapping and while you;re there look at the flexible tubes, if you find one large enough than I recommend trying that first. Make sure you get wrap that is much larger than the ring, I got one that was almost the exact same size and it took 2 hours and some very sore thumbs to get it on there, heat was almost not necessary at that point.
Pictures of each. As I said I just used heat shrink tubing for the ring, not the absolute greatest but it removes the pain. For the paper, her signature is on the other side and there is no way of me getting through without her finding out but I always have a key in case something happens and actually needs it to be removed.
Last night I had an accident, a ruined orgasm, the third one since we started actually. The first two were her fault and she does know this but she was still angry, this last one was my fault and she was not happy at all especially sine its my third one regardless of who is at fault.
The minute it happened she made me clean up and immediately locked it on for the night and through this morning and day, she plans to unlock it when she gets home. I know my punishments aren’t very much but I guarantee they will get worse over time.
Lately she has even gotten into ball slapping, something I truly hate, something she is learning she loves. I do seem to have unbelievably sensitive balls however as throughout my life even the smallest tap would make me almost puke so she doesn’t hit them hard, just enough to make them hurt and get her point across that she owns them.
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